FILE: ARCH-LTR-202 / STATUS: ACTIVE
What They Wished You Knew: The Apology Loop
You are reading questions people typed about someone who runs The Apology Loop. Read them, then the pattern file.
I have a coworker who apologizes constantly, over small things that are nobody's fault. How can I encourage her to break this habit?
What does it mean if your coworker is constantly apologizing?
A guy who likes me says sorry a lot, like a crazy amount. How do I get him to stop saying sorry for every little thing?
How to deal with my partner saying 'im sorry I just make you upset all the time' when something they do upsets me
How to tell someone to stop apologising so much without offending them
Each line below is a public question a real person typed, quoted word for word. The Archivist chose and ordered them and wrote nothing inside them.
THE PATTERN FILE
The Apology Loop: Why do I apologize for everything?
When The Apology Loop runs for years
These letters are part of the Letters in The Stacks, beside Unsent.
The free Crash Course, short lessons on your pattern, starts by naming it.