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Crash Course.

Each module contains the complete crash course for one pattern. Choose it directly and read at your own pace.

Choose a pattern to begin.

I pull away or stop replying.

I apologize when I haven’t done anything wrong.

I test people instead of asking for what I need.

I’m drawn to people or situations that are bad for me.

I brush off compliments.

I keep giving more than I can sustain.

I pull back when things start going well.

I keep revising and struggle to finish.

My anger turns into words or actions that hurt.

The Archivist Method

The insight is free. The change is the work.