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Field Guides.
All nine complete field guides, with twelve chapters each. Start with the situation you need to understand.

Choose a pattern to begin.

Disappearing
I pull away or stop replying.

Apology Loop
I apologize when I haven’t done anything wrong.

Testing
I test people instead of asking for what I need.

Attraction to Harm
I’m drawn to people or situations that are bad for me.

Compliment Deflection
I brush off compliments.

Draining Bond
I keep giving more than I can sustain.

Success Sabotage
I pull back when things start going well.

Perfectionism Trap
I keep revising and struggle to finish.

Rage
My anger turns into words or actions that hurt.

